Category Archives: Conflicts

Afraid to Re-Unite

GKD

I and my girlfriend had a common friend whom I wanted to meet and seek some help. But for some unknown reason, I was afraid to meet her and tell my problems.

You suggested me to chant – “I RELEASE ALL THOUGHTS PREVENTING ME FROM RE-UNITING WITH HER. I THANK HER FOR REUNITING WITH ME”.

After chanting this for about 5-7 days (and also writing it for 21 times), I felt like contacting this common friend for help. Earlier, some unknown fear was preventing me from contacting this common friend.

I met this common friend yesterday and she assured me all help / cooperation in re-uniting us.

Naran

Continue the same.

For most of the people who want re-union green is the lacking color. Download two pictures of gem EMERALD. Keep one in your pocket and the other under your pillow.

Explanation

  1. When something doesn’t happen after making several attempts – both personal and healing actions, it means something is inside you that prevents or blocks you from getting the results you want. So GKD was asked to release those thoughts.
  2. He was asked to thank in advance for what is going to happen in the future. For anything you want to happen, do this.
  3. Emerald helps us to bond and connect with our beloved ones. Please check this link, “Binding People Together”: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2012/02/15/binding-people-together/

Related Blog

Shed the ego: http://wp.me/p3dhkD-1V

Sending Love

MT

It’s a very wonderful article – “Relationship with Your Parents = Relationship with Others”:  http://wp.me/ptUDl-6A.

How can we have good relationships with in-laws? Why always there is some insecurity, disharmony in this relationship?

Parents of a girl and parents of a boy, both should be treated equally. After all both are parents. If one be grateful for his/her parents, does the relationship with in-laws will also improve?

Why after marriage of a son, parents get usually upset?  They start seeing faults, blaming son and daughter-in-law even for small things. How one can be perfect this much? Even son and daughter-in-law may have same feeling for them!

How both can have normal relationship (unconditional) with each other?

Naran

In any healing, one should think about oneself only.

One should give love irrespective of whether he is receiving love or being blamed or criticized.

Expecting others to behave as per our wish will not work because each one is different – each one’s background, learning, upbringing, views and opinions are totally different. Only opposites are attracted to be in one place, so that we learn the art of living in co-existence within a family.

How to change oneself by asking some relevant questions?

Where am I now? There is disharmony in the family.

What do I want? I want harmony in the family.

How do I maintain this problem? Or how do I contribute – my thoughts, my opinions, and my behavior, to this disharmony?

Or what is in me that maintains this disharmony?

How can I get harmony?

How will I change to get harmony?

Why can’t I solve it?

How could I make this harmony possible?

What is required to have harmony?

MT
You said that one should give love irrespective of whether he is receiving or being blamed or criticized. That is fine!

Sending love means what? Is it always thinking well about in-laws, parents, loved ones or is it seeing good in them or is it always to say “yes” to them, whatever they expect from me?

Are we allowed to express ourselves in harmless way, when I don’t like something or don’t want do certain things or wanted to do in another way? Or sending love means being kind with them?

Pls help me to understand sending love means what?

Naran

Ask these questions to yourself and you will get the answer.

I am forgiven

HELP

I had a misunderstanding with someone I love very much, and due to my arrogance this person didn’t come to meet me. We normally meet every day. How can I save my relationship with this person and strengthen it.

Naran

Help others without arrogance. Do the forgiving exercise

HELP

As per your instruction, I did the forgiving exercise 7 X 108 times. I also personally asked for the forgiveness and now I am forgiven.

From the ‘I Love Myself” Workbook

How to manifest divine love in all your relationships?

  1. Forgive, thank and love all your relationships.
  2. You may be in conflict with your relative today but may not have an aversion about them tomorrow.
  3. Do not carry the conflict for tomorrow. The reason for today’s conflict should not be present for tomorrow’s conflict. Tomorrow when you have a conflict again, do not use all the words which you used today, and do not bring this scene then.
  4. After every fight and quarrel, just thank all the quarrels. When you thank them you will find a world of difference, the very next day.
  5. Also thank the person who fought with you.
  6. After the conflict is over, use appreciative words for that person (mentally) and then forgive them.

It feels like hell

Jayant Sing

I live with my girlfriend. She has a very jealous nature and a very bad temper. She argues over tiny things, making it a big deal. I keep quite thinking to cool it down so as to not to aggravate the situation.

But, then she doesn’t talks to me for 4 days. Then she acts as if nothing happened and blames me for the entire thing.

When we are in good terms it feels like heaven. I would really appreciate if we can avoid this and get some help from you.

Naran

Chant “CHICORY, HOLLY, TOGETHER DIVINE”

Explanation

Temper tantrums: “She argues over tiny things”; emotional blackmailing: she doesn’t talk to me for 4 days: CHICORY

For over-sensitivity and jealousy: HOLLY

For harmony: TOGETHER DIVINE

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Confrontation no more

Naran

What is specialty of Pran Mudra in addition to savings?

Every family will have arguments and conflicts. If it doesn’t happen then it is not a family. All of us are wearing a mask and have come here. Some might have fought with their husbands to come to this class.

This Pran Mudra says, “Don’t enter into any argument”.  When the opposite person resist or gets angry with you, be in this Mudra. For one full day, be in that Mudra. Don’t react to that person’s provocation but just smile at him.

Automatically, the person will physically abandon himself because he doesn’t know how to react to your smiling face. Or he will reduce his anger.

This is the best way to handle the other man’s anger, because handling other man’s anger is always interesting to us.

This Pran Mudra contains both water and earth elements. Outside us – the Earth is made up off by forming particles. Earth materials help us construct a building.

Similarly, the earth element of Pran Mudra helps in building up our body, to build our body immunity, to increase weight, to increase the sperm count and to develop our motherly nature.

It also can help us in our earnings too….

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Manage Confrontation: http://wp.me/ptUIh-N

Peaceful Visit: http://wp.me/ptUDl-96

Getting out of Troubled Water: http://wp.me/ptULP-t

Shed the ego

Sunita

Is there is any mantra by which we can reunite two people by calming down their anger?

My sis-in-law and my father are having a terrible problem. They don’t want to listen about each other. Due to that the whole family is unable to speak to them. But I want to solve this problem.

On the contrary I don’t say both of them are ready to leave their ego because they don’t like to listen to anyone to shed their anger and ego for each of them.

So pls give me some mantra so that I can chant on behalf of both of them and reunite them miraculously.

Naran

Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”

Love, Affection and Harmony

Kunzite

It is light pink in color. For menopause problems Kunzite is very useful. It will teach a person love and affection.

Family harmony

Kunzite is anther gem remedy which is very helpful in restoring the harmony in the family. The rose quartz removes the hurt feelings in the house. Because of the hurt one becomes terribly angry and in rage. For that situation of anger and rage Kunzite is very useful. It is also very effective for family disputes.

Pink Tourmaline

It teaches intimate love.

Green Sapphire

Green Sapphire also promotes fidelity. Especially it works well in the relationship because in a relationship only fidelity is important. It is also good in partnership driven business.

If one wants his workers to be loyal with him he should take Green Sapphire.

Nine Gems

For autistic children Nine Gems can be given as a background remedy. The heart is longing for love. Even though the love is there, they cannot feel it and they behave in an uncontrolled manner. For such persons give Blue Sapphire for restriction of the behaviour and after two hours give Nine Gems.

Fever does not come down means then you can give Nine Gems.

Ruby

Ruby must be used very carefully. In a family Ruby should not come because the key word is – break. Ruby should not be worn in the body permanently. Once in a while if you wear it is ok.

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