Have seen good difference with chanting

Sal

I met a guy on matrimonial site and since then we have become good friends.  He is unable to feel any emotions for anybody.

As what I understand, he had to take care of his family financially from an early age. His parents did not have a good marriage and he saw a lot of fights between them.

He loved only one girl but she used him and got married and he is unable to forget her and move on. He likes me but because the way he feels, he does not think he will ever marry.

Pls let me know how I can do anything on his behalf.

Naran

Help yourself.

Chant “I release my desire to change anybody”.

In addition, chant, “I OPEN to the LOVE, BEAUTY, GRACE of the DIVINE”.

Sal (after two weeks)

Thank you. I have seen good difference with my chanting. The person has become more open for accepting new.

Also, I feel better myself and happy.

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Relating well with a person

Naran

Why do you like somebody? It is because he or she gives you happiness.

• I release my desire to seek happiness through him.

What is actually happening inside me?

The person might change. You could not like him then. If you do not get happiness because of the change in him then you do not want him to change.

• Here, desire to control is operating. Release that.

I notice, now I have a desire to seek happiness through that person. Thus, everything is conditional, which is our (human) nature.

Ask the question, ‘What is the pleasure or pain that I operate from?’

Desire to control or change is always with us.

As long desire to control is operating, harmony cannot be established as it is compromised. Therefore, change your desire to control.

• I release my desire to change him.
• I release my anger about him.

Even if he says good things, you reject it for you do not want his approval (as you dislike him).

Love is safe

Sri

This constant depression is taking a toll on me :(. So, when I get even a straw of positivity from you it makes me feel better.

No amount of telling my mind anything helps. It continues to feel sad about everything that is going wrong, in parallel.

No house, no promotion, no love. And finally all the hard work only gets bad feedback.

Naran

Behind sadness, there is expectation to be loved; behind this expectation, fear of rejection, fear of abandonment or fear of intimacy is there.

The fear and expectation or desiring operate in opposite directions, and produce the sadness feeling.

This fear denies everything you desire.

Chant this and write this:

• “I release that part, which wants to be loved”
• “I release that part, which activates fear of rejection”
• “I align with that part, which gives love unconditionally.”
• “I align with that part, which feels secured