Category Archives: Love
My fiancé’s anger destroys my patience and love. He is comparing me with the others. Really I want peace regarding my relationship. I want his love, caring and his urge to call me by his own.
Sometimes, I feel god give me some magical key to handle him and he starts to love me, my family and respect all of us.
Tap with the following statement 3 times on each point: “Even though I am frustrated, I find the magical key to handle him”.
Do it daily and as many times as possible.
The Universal Lover: http://wp.me/p3eYWi-U
ADVANTAGE Acceptance: http://wp.me/pwblL-D
I met a guy on matrimonial site and since then we have become good friends. He is unable to feel any emotions for anybody.
As what I understand, he had to take care of his family financially from an early age. His parents did not have a good marriage and he saw a lot of fights between them.
He loved only one girl but she used him and got married and he is unable to forget her and move on. He likes me but because the way he feels, he does not think he will ever marry.
Pls let me know how I can do anything on his behalf.
Chant “I release my desire to change anybody”.
In addition, chant, “I OPEN to the LOVE, BEAUTY, GRACE of the DIVINE”.
Sal (after two weeks)
Thank you. I have seen good difference with my chanting. The person has become more open for accepting new.
Also, I feel better myself and happy.
Remove dislikes for a person: http://wp.me/pwblL-4s
Star with Stars Part II: http://wp.me/pBuLh-g
It’s a very wonderful article – “Relationship with Your Parents = Relationship with Others”: http://wp.me/ptUDl-6A.
How can we have good relationships with in-laws? Why always there is some insecurity, disharmony in this relationship?
Parents of a girl and parents of a boy, both should be treated equally. After all both are parents. If one be grateful for his/her parents, does the relationship with in-laws will also improve?
Why after marriage of a son, parents get usually upset? They start seeing faults, blaming son and daughter-in-law even for small things. How one can be perfect this much? Even son and daughter-in-law may have same feeling for them!
How both can have normal relationship (unconditional) with each other?
In any healing, one should think about oneself only.
One should give love irrespective of whether he is receiving love or being blamed or criticized.
Expecting others to behave as per our wish will not work because each one is different – each one’s background, learning, upbringing, views and opinions are totally different. Only opposites are attracted to be in one place, so that we learn the art of living in co-existence within a family.
How to change oneself by asking some relevant questions?
Where am I now? There is disharmony in the family.
What do I want? I want harmony in the family.
How do I maintain this problem? Or how do I contribute – my thoughts, my opinions, and my behavior, to this disharmony?
Or what is in me that maintains this disharmony?
How can I get harmony?
How will I change to get harmony?
Why can’t I solve it?
How could I make this harmony possible?
What is required to have harmony?
You said that one should give love irrespective of whether he is receiving or being blamed or criticized. That is fine!
Sending love means what? Is it always thinking well about in-laws, parents, loved ones or is it seeing good in them or is it always to say “yes” to them, whatever they expect from me?
Are we allowed to express ourselves in harmless way, when I don’t like something or don’t want do certain things or wanted to do in another way? Or sending love means being kind with them?
Pls help me to understand sending love means what?
Ask these questions to yourself and you will get the answer.
I had a misunderstanding with someone I love very much, and due to my arrogance this person didn’t come to meet me. We normally meet every day. How can I save my relationship with this person and strengthen it.
Help others without arrogance. Do the forgiving exercise
As per your instruction, I did the forgiving exercise 7 X 108 times. I also personally asked for the forgiveness and now I am forgiven.
From the ‘I Love Myself” Workbook
How to manifest divine love in all your relationships?
- Forgive, thank and love all your relationships.
- You may be in conflict with your relative today but may not have an aversion about them tomorrow.
- Do not carry the conflict for tomorrow. The reason for today’s conflict should not be present for tomorrow’s conflict. Tomorrow when you have a conflict again, do not use all the words which you used today, and do not bring this scene then.
- After every fight and quarrel, just thank all the quarrels. When you thank them you will find a world of difference, the very next day.
- Also thank the person who fought with you.
- After the conflict is over, use appreciative words for that person (mentally) and then forgive them.
It is light pink in color. For menopause problems Kunzite is very useful. It will teach a person love and affection.
Kunzite is anther gem remedy which is very helpful in restoring the harmony in the family. The rose quartz removes the hurt feelings in the house. Because of the hurt one becomes terribly angry and in rage. For that situation of anger and rage Kunzite is very useful. It is also very effective for family disputes.
It teaches intimate love.
Green Sapphire also promotes fidelity. Especially it works well in the relationship because in a relationship only fidelity is important. It is also good in partnership driven business.
If one wants his workers to be loyal with him he should take Green Sapphire.
For autistic children Nine Gems can be given as a background remedy. The heart is longing for love. Even though the love is there, they cannot feel it and they behave in an uncontrolled manner. For such persons give Blue Sapphire for restriction of the behaviour and after two hours give Nine Gems.
Fever does not come down means then you can give Nine Gems.
Ruby must be used very carefully. In a family Ruby should not come because the key word is – break. Ruby should not be worn in the body permanently. Once in a while if you wear it is ok.
This constant depression is taking a toll on me :(. So, when I get even a straw of positivity from you it makes me feel better.
No amount of telling my mind anything helps. It continues to feel sad about everything that is going wrong, in parallel.
No house, no promotion, no love. And finally all the hard work only gets bad feedback.
Behind sadness, there is expectation to be loved; behind this expectation, fear of rejection, fear of abandonment or fear of intimacy is there.
The fear and expectation or desiring operate in opposite directions, and produce the sadness feeling.
This fear denies everything you desire.
Chant this and write this:
- “I release that part, which wants to be loved”
- “I release that part, which activates fear of rejection”
- “I align with that part, which gives love unconditionally.”
- “I align with that part, which feels secured
I am making much progress on receiving love by doing EFT for all the contributing factors to my resistance to receiving love and releasing my desire for love. Persistence was the key.
Now, I’m noticing all the ways in which people need love and care. I think I was blind to it before.
The problem now is either I do not know how to provide love or I find that I am very reluctant to give it.
For example, telling my friend something nice about them. I really don’t feel like it is necessary but I see people need affirmation.
Please help me become better at giving love in a way my close friends and relatives can receive. I am also VERY reluctant to say “I love you.”
I too am facing same thing, with some experiences in life.
I feel reluctant to say I LOVE YOU and feel something odd or negative in showing love. I was exactly opposite.
Everybody wants love and affection.
We express that through our expression and behavior only.
Every action of ours is aimed at that only.
Love is spontaneous when it is divine.
When you say that people expect a word of appreciation, give it.
If you view, it is not necessary, then don’t think about it.
But if you are concerned about it, then you also want approval from others.
I love one girl. She talks to me but don’t know whether she loves or not.
But my life will fill with joy if she is my wife. Now what to do?
I am worried about my love and i am asleep every night because i am missing her.
I can’t propose her because i am afraid what if she says no to me?
If you love a person ask immediately without hesitation.
Chant, “CENTAURY, GENTIAN, CHERRY PLUM”
CENTAURY: to be assertive
GENTIAN: not to feel dejected if “no” is the answer
CHERRY PLUM: to talk sweetly and ask her
Geetha: “My husband doesn’t show love and affection to me”.
Naran: “What’s your reaction to him?”
Geetha: “I am also angry with him“
Naran: “Anger cannot heal anger. If you want harmony and peace you need to pay the price for it.”
Without advising her further, I gave her the symbol for Love (66) and asked her to give me a feedback by using it.
Next day, around 7 am, she called me. She told me that she kept the love symbol under her pillow while sleeping.
Unusually, she woke up early in the morning. As she didn’t know what to do at that time, she switched on the Vijay TV (a Tamil channel).
There was a TV program, where a scholar was giving a discourse about an incident narrated in the great epic Mahabharata. It goes like this.
Vidura was advising Duryodhana. He told the latter to have peace with Pandavas as only peace and tolerance can buy love and anger cannot buy love at any time. You can treat an angry person only with love. As opposite poles attract each other an angry person will be attracted to a loving person.
That advice was totally applicable 100% to my client, who was consulting me for last 10 years. When I used to advise her either she will never listen to me or the remedies that she had taken have failed to heal her anger.
The message from the discourse is: opposite pole of anger is love. Unless you show love you cannot change anger of a person.
She understood that message and offered her thanks to the symbol for love.
If you keep meditating on the symbol, you will find more information about love.
Refer the link:
66 Love: http://wp.me/p3zawE-11
Please read the first part of this article here: https://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/04/22/no-more-disharmony/
To Create Harmony and Love in your life, affirm the following as many times as possible:
I thank the divine for aligning me with the divine order and love.
I thank the divine for keeping me in harmony and peace.
I thank the divine for getting love and affection.
I thank the divine for being appreciated.
I thank the divine for my tolerance and understanding.
I thank the divine for getting appreciated, and praised.
I thank the divine for changing me lovable and attractive.
I thank the divine for attracting kind, loving people.
I thank the divine for keeping me in a state of love, joy and peace of mind.
I thank the divine for aligning me in a centre of divine love.
I thank the divine for making me resonate with the centre of divine love.
I thank the divine for keeping me ever in a state of love and gratitude.
You have removed disharmony and in that place you have filled with harmony. This is the secret of ruling your mind – releasing and then affirming with what we want.
Now, you may wonder why we need to thank the divine, when there is no harmony yet! This is the secret of achieving things – thanking in advance what we want. The universe will give you what you want.