Whenever I chant SCLERANTHUS, I don’t feel interested in my guy. What does that indicate? I don’t have feelings to talk to that person.
Scleranthus: the mind is in two modes; one part of her loves him; but the other part does not love him or wanting to be away from him.
The right part is activated but unfortunately, she did not analyse; instead of analyzing she fears the flower remedy.
Choose the right option: http://wp.me/ptUDl-9E
Decisions without confusion: http://wp.me/ptUDl-Q
I am married for 26 years and my husband is having illicit relationships with women all these years. My relatives and friends wanted me to divorce. But somehow I could never do it.
Now, we have three grown up kids and he continues this way. Please give me a mantra where I can save my husband from these women and live a God-fearing life.
Download a picture of black vulture and paste his name or photo on it. This will rectify the person who philanders with other girls.
Daily chant “CORAL, RESTORE MAGNANIMITY TINY SWEET BE”
CORAL for infatuation and temptation for extra-sensory pleasures
Reclaim (RESTORE) the lost love in MAGNANIMITY by shedding the ego (BE TINY) to love with SWEETNESS in the heart
Continuing from the post, “Importance of Switch Words in our lives”: http://wp.me/ptUDX-78
The switch word TINY stops criticism.
For example, the moment you say TINY the mind pictures SMALL.
The words for which pictures are formed immediately are called as switch words. That’s why grammar is not important while chanting switch words.
A person who is an expert in grammar will have a high ego. So he is not TINY.
When it comes to ego, every person has got it and so they cannot be TINY.
When the word TINY is chanted by you, you will appear tiny or small to the opposite person. He will think, “Hey, this person is a very small person”. (So he does not challenge you and he gives up).
Be devoid of emotions and ego: http://wp.me/pBuLh-2R
Facing Ego Problems: http://wp.me/p39EiO-1c
This constant depression is taking a toll on me :(. So, when I get even a straw of positivity from you it makes me feel better.
No amount of telling my mind anything helps. It continues to feel sad about everything that is going wrong, in parallel.
No house, no promotion, no love. And finally all the hard work only gets bad feedback.
Behind sadness, there is expectation to be loved; behind this expectation, fear of rejection, fear of abandonment or fear of intimacy is there.
The fear and expectation or desiring operate in opposite directions, and produce the sadness feeling.
This fear denies everything you desire.
Chant this and write this:
- “I release that part, which wants to be loved”
- “I release that part, which activates fear of rejection”
- “I align with that part, which gives love unconditionally.”
- “I align with that part, which feels secured
When can you get what you want in a relationship?
All of us enter in to any relationship to expecting something in the lines of – “I want someone so that I feel good; I want to be loved and taken care of”.
In any relationship when you expect, you will be disappointed.
When one is ready to give without expectation, he can get. There will not be any dejection.
How a destructive relationship starts getting building up?
When I do not want any destructive relationship or when I want harmony and peace in a relationship, then I should stop resisting it first.
Instead, when the spouse says or does anything you disagree or you don’t like, you start resisting inwardly.
Then like starts yielding to dislike.
However, this is not expressed but suppressed. This continues until it becomes resentment.
How you destroy the foundation of love?
You become angry.
Anger separates you from the other person and a barrier is formed.
Intimacy is ended, and leads to rejection.
You find ways to blame or criticize the partner wanting to prove that he/she is wrong.
Verbally you attack.
Everything the other person does seem to be wrong and the physical separation begins.
Without knowing, that your own blaming causes rejection – you feel rejected.
Your relationship deteriorates further by either suspicion or withdrawal.
Resolving these destructive tendencies
If relationship is to be mended then take the following remedies:
- AGRIMONY for open communication
- BEECH to understand other’s point of view; to have tolerance
- WILLOW to stop blaming and to forgive
- WALNUT to adjust and to be compromising
- CHERRY PLUM not to burst out
- HOLLY for suspicion and back biting
- CHICORY to give and not to force one
Each day is a new day. Start as if it is a new relationship.