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How to maintain your level of intimacy

When can you get what you want in a relationship?

All of us enter in to any relationship to expecting something in the lines of – “I want someone so that I feel good; I want to be loved and taken care of”.

In any relationship when you expect, you will be disappointed.

When one is ready to give without expectation, he can get.  There will not be any dejection.

How a destructive relationship starts getting building up?

When I do not want any destructive relationship or when I want harmony and peace in a relationship, then I should stop resisting it first.

Instead, when the spouse says or does anything you disagree or you don’t like, you start resisting inwardly.

Then like starts yielding to dislike.

However, this is not expressed but suppressed.  This continues until it becomes resentment.

How you destroy the foundation of love?

You become angry.

Anger separates you from the other person and a barrier is formed.

Intimacy is ended, and leads to rejection.

You find ways to blame or criticize the partner wanting to prove that he/she is wrong.

Verbally you attack.

Everything the other person does seem to be wrong and the physical separation begins.

Without knowing, that your own blaming causes rejection – you feel rejected.

Your relationship deteriorates further by either suspicion or withdrawal.

Resolving these destructive tendencies

If relationship is to be mended then take the following remedies:

  • AGRIMONY for open communication
  • BEECH to understand other’s point of view; to have tolerance
  • WILLOW to stop blaming and to forgive
  • WALNUT to adjust and to be compromising
  • CHERRY PLUM not to burst out
  • HOLLY for suspicion and back biting
  • CHICORY to give and not to force one

Each day is a new day. Start as if it is a new relationship.

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Communication with Dear Ones

Smiley

Does 5 AM signify anything? Can I send msg to someone (communication gap) by using tapping?

Naran

Download the tapping picture from any site. Write the name of the person. Start tapping

Smiley

Actually I want him to contact me either on net or phone as I don’t have any way to contact him. So I need to know during tapping what I have to affirm.

Naran

1. One should tap oneself first. Tap stating “TOGETHER I accept myself totally”.

This acceptance releases our resistance.

When the desire to change anything or any person operates, the mind is in conflict. The other part of the mind knows that it is futile to change anything. The desiring mind, wants to change everything.

The reality is one has to accept what is happening, releasing the desire to change. Then only our wish or intention or command can have any effect on other person.

Wishing or healing the wish is the only option available to us. Manifestation is unpredictable.

2. Do on the paper with the tapping points printed.

Use your wish as a command word.

For example, “Talk to me.  Contact (name of the person) now”.

3. Affirm, “I accept totally what is done by the divine”.

Communication Issues with Mom

http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2010/02/16/communication-issues-with-mom/

A Solution for a Never-Ending Struggle

http://naranheal.wordpress.com/2011/02/24/a-solution-for-a-never-ending-struggle/

Don’t let others exploit you

http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2011/02/22/don%e2%80%99t-let-others-use-your-goodwill/

Bonding and Healing Your Relationships

http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2010/11/29/bonding-and-healing-relationships-with-red-rose/

Turn the anger away

http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2011/03/16/turn-the-anger-away/

Her temperament was affecting her relationships

http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2009/05/08/temperamental-christe/

Relationships with others

http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2011/08/30/heal-your-relationships-through-gem-remedies/

Create Love

http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2009/04/17/create-love/

Have a great communication and understanding

http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/05/18/good-communication-and-understanding/

I am loved (by all)

http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2011/08/23/i-am-loved-by-all/

Release your resentment, otherwise it will eat you!!!

http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2011/06/01/beware-resentment-eats-you/

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