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Have seen good difference with chanting

Sal

I met a guy on matrimonial site and since then we have become good friends.  He is unable to feel any emotions for anybody.

As what I understand, he had to take care of his family financially from an early age. His parents did not have a good marriage and he saw a lot of fights between them.

He loved only one girl but she used him and got married and he is unable to forget her and move on. He likes me but because the way he feels, he does not think he will ever marry.

Pls let me know how I can do anything on his behalf.

Naran

Help yourself.

Chant “I release my desire to change anybody”.

In addition, chant, “I OPEN to the LOVE, BEAUTY, GRACE of the DIVINE”.

Sal (after two weeks)

Thank you. I have seen good difference with my chanting. The person has become more open for accepting new.

Also, I feel better myself and happy.

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Relating well with a person

Naran

Why do you like somebody? It is because he or she gives you happiness.

  • I release my desire to seek happiness through him.

What is actually happening inside me?

The person might change. You could not like him then. If you do not get happiness because of the change in him then you do not want him to change.

  • Here, desire to control is operating. Release that.

I notice, now I have a desire to seek happiness through that person. Thus, everything is conditional, which is our (human) nature.

Ask the question, ‘What is the pleasure or pain that I operate from?’

Desire to control or change is always with us.

As long desire to control is operating, harmony cannot be established as it is compromised. Therefore, change your desire to control.

  • I release my desire to change him.
  • I release my anger about him.

Even if he says good things, you reject it for you do not want his approval (as you dislike him).

Everybody wants love

Grace

I am making much progress on receiving love by doing EFT for all the contributing factors to my resistance to receiving love and releasing my desire for love. Persistence was the key.

Now, I’m noticing all the ways in which people need love and care. I think I was blind to it before.

The problem now is either I do not know how to provide love or I find that I am very reluctant to give it.

For example, telling my friend something nice about them. I really don’t feel like it is necessary but I see people need affirmation.

Please help me become better at giving love in a way my close friends and relatives can receive.  I am also VERY reluctant to say “I love you.”

Pami

I too am facing same thing, with some experiences in life.

I feel reluctant to say I LOVE YOU and feel something odd or negative in showing love. I was exactly opposite.

Naran

Everybody wants love and affection.

We express that through our expression and behavior only.

Every action of ours is aimed at that only.

Love is spontaneous when it is divine.

When you say that people expect a word of appreciation, give it.

If you view, it is not necessary, then don’t think about it.

But if you are concerned about it, then you also want approval from others.

Communication with Dear Ones

Smiley

Does 5 AM signify anything? Can I send msg to someone (communication gap) by using tapping?

Naran

Download the tapping picture from any site. Write the name of the person. Start tapping

Smiley

Actually I want him to contact me either on net or phone as I don’t have any way to contact him. So I need to know during tapping what I have to affirm.

Naran

1. One should tap oneself first. Tap stating “TOGETHER I accept myself totally”.

This acceptance releases our resistance.

When the desire to change anything or any person operates, the mind is in conflict. The other part of the mind knows that it is futile to change anything. The desiring mind, wants to change everything.

The reality is one has to accept what is happening, releasing the desire to change. Then only our wish or intention or command can have any effect on other person.

Wishing or healing the wish is the only option available to us. Manifestation is unpredictable.

2. Do on the paper with the tapping points printed.

Use your wish as a command word.

For example, “Talk to me.  Contact (name of the person) now”.

3. Affirm, “I accept totally what is done by the divine”.

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