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Ego is not tiny

Continuing from the post, “Importance of Switch Words in our lives”: http://wp.me/ptUDX-78

Naran

The switch word TINY stops criticism.

For example, the moment you say TINY the mind pictures SMALL.

The words for which pictures are formed immediately are called as switch words. That’s why grammar is not important while chanting switch words.

A person who is an expert in grammar will have a high ego. So he is not TINY.

When it comes to ego, every person has got it and so they cannot be TINY.

When the word TINY is chanted by you, you will appear tiny or small to the opposite person. He will think, “Hey, this person is a very small person”. (So he does not challenge you and he gives up).

Related Blogs

Be devoid of emotions and ego: http://wp.me/pBuLh-2R

Facing Ego Problems: http://wp.me/p39EiO-1c

Relating well with a person

Naran

Why do you like somebody? It is because he or she gives you happiness.

  • I release my desire to seek happiness through him.

What is actually happening inside me?

The person might change. You could not like him then. If you do not get happiness because of the change in him then you do not want him to change.

  • Here, desire to control is operating. Release that.

I notice, now I have a desire to seek happiness through that person. Thus, everything is conditional, which is our (human) nature.

Ask the question, ‘What is the pleasure or pain that I operate from?’

Desire to control or change is always with us.

As long desire to control is operating, harmony cannot be established as it is compromised. Therefore, change your desire to control.

  • I release my desire to change him.
  • I release my anger about him.

Even if he says good things, you reject it for you do not want his approval (as you dislike him).

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