Blog Archives
Relating well with a person
Posted by Elsol
Naran
Why do you like somebody? It is because he or she gives you happiness.
- I release my desire to seek happiness through him.
What is actually happening inside me?
The person might change. You could not like him then. If you do not get happiness because of the change in him then you do not want him to change.
- Here, desire to control is operating. Release that.
I notice, now I have a desire to seek happiness through that person. Thus, everything is conditional, which is our (human) nature.
Ask the question, ‘What is the pleasure or pain that I operate from?’
Desire to control or change is always with us.
As long desire to control is operating, harmony cannot be established as it is compromised. Therefore, change your desire to control.
- I release my desire to change him.
- I release my anger about him.
Even if he says good things, you reject it for you do not want his approval (as you dislike him).
Posted in Happiness, Harmony, Relationship
Tags: A, about, anger, approval, ask, because, change, compromised, conditional, control, desire, dislike, established, gives, Good, happening, happiness, Harmony, human, inside, like, Naran S Balakumar, nature, operating, pain, person, pleasure, question, reject, Relating, Release, seek, to, want, well, with
Communication with Dear Ones
Posted by Elsol
Smiley
Does 5 AM signify anything? Can I send msg to someone (communication gap) by using tapping?
Naran
Download the tapping picture from any site. Write the name of the person. Start tapping
Smiley
Actually I want him to contact me either on net or phone as I don’t have any way to contact him. So I need to know during tapping what I have to affirm.
Naran
1. One should tap oneself first. Tap stating “TOGETHER I accept myself totally”.
This acceptance releases our resistance.
When the desire to change anything or any person operates, the mind is in conflict. The other part of the mind knows that it is futile to change anything. The desiring mind, wants to change everything.
The reality is one has to accept what is happening, releasing the desire to change. Then only our wish or intention or command can have any effect on other person.
Wishing or healing the wish is the only option available to us. Manifestation is unpredictable.
2. Do on the paper with the tapping points printed.
Use your wish as a command word.
For example, “Talk to me. Contact (name of the person) now”.
3. Affirm, “I accept totally what is done by the divine”.
Posted in Communication
Tags: 5 AM, accept, acceptance, Affirm, affirmation, available, “Together Relationship”, change, command, communication, conflict, contact, Dear, desire, desiring, divine, done, Download, effect, EFT, example, futile, gap, happening, Healing, in, intention, know, Manifestation, message, mind, msg, name, Naran S Balakumar, need, net, now, on, Ones, operates, option, other, paper, part, person, phone, picture, points, printed, reality, releases, resistance, Send, signify, site, Smiley, stating, switch words, Talk, tapping, TOGETHER, totally, unpredictable, Use, using, want, wish, Wishing, with, word, Write
Together Relationship 