I live with my girlfriend. She has a very jealous nature and a very bad temper. She argues over tiny things, making it a big deal. I keep quite thinking to cool it down so as to not to aggravate the situation.
But, then she doesn’t talks to me for 4 days. Then she acts as if nothing happened and blames me for the entire thing.
When we are in good terms it feels like heaven. I would really appreciate if we can avoid this and get some help from you.
Chant “CHICORY, HOLLY, TOGETHER DIVINE”
Temper tantrums: “She argues over tiny things”; emotional blackmailing: she doesn’t talk to me for 4 days: CHICORY
For over-sensitivity and jealousy: HOLLY
For harmony: TOGETHER DIVINE
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What is specialty of Pran Mudra in addition to savings?
Every family will have arguments and conflicts. If it doesn’t happen then it is not a family. All of us are wearing a mask and have come here. Some might have fought with their husbands to come to this class.
This Pran Mudra says, “Don’t enter into any argument”. When the opposite person resist or gets angry with you, be in this Mudra. For one full day, be in that Mudra. Don’t react to that person’s provocation but just smile at him.
Automatically, the person will physically abandon himself because he doesn’t know how to react to your smiling face. Or he will reduce his anger.
This is the best way to handle the other man’s anger, because handling other man’s anger is always interesting to us.
This Pran Mudra contains both water and earth elements. Outside us – the Earth is made up off by forming particles. Earth materials help us construct a building.
Similarly, the earth element of Pran Mudra helps in building up our body, to build our body immunity, to increase weight, to increase the sperm count and to develop our motherly nature.
It also can help us in our earnings too….
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Why do you like somebody? It is because he or she gives you happiness.
- I release my desire to seek happiness through him.
What is actually happening inside me?
The person might change. You could not like him then. If you do not get happiness because of the change in him then you do not want him to change.
- Here, desire to control is operating. Release that.
I notice, now I have a desire to seek happiness through that person. Thus, everything is conditional, which is our (human) nature.
Ask the question, ‘What is the pleasure or pain that I operate from?’
Desire to control or change is always with us.
As long desire to control is operating, harmony cannot be established as it is compromised. Therefore, change your desire to control.
- I release my desire to change him.
- I release my anger about him.
Even if he says good things, you reject it for you do not want his approval (as you dislike him).
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