Magic key to handle your beloved

Simran

My fiancé’s anger destroys my patience and love. He is comparing me with the others. Really I want peace regarding my relationship. I want his love, caring and his urge to call me by his own.

Sometimes, I feel god give me some magical key to handle him and he starts to love me, my family and respect all of us.

Naran

Tap with the following statement 3 times on each point: “Even though I am frustrated, I find the magical key to handle him”.

Do it daily and as many times as possible.

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Sending Love

MT

It’s a very wonderful article – “Relationship with Your Parents = Relationship with Others”:  http://wp.me/ptUDl-6A.

How can we have good relationships with in-laws? Why always there is some insecurity, disharmony in this relationship?

Parents of a girl and parents of a boy, both should be treated equally. After all both are parents. If one be grateful for his/her parents, does the relationship with in-laws will also improve?

Why after marriage of a son, parents get usually upset?  They start seeing faults, blaming son and daughter-in-law even for small things. How one can be perfect this much? Even son and daughter-in-law may have same feeling for them!

How both can have normal relationship (unconditional) with each other?

Naran

In any healing, one should think about oneself only.

One should give love irrespective of whether he is receiving love or being blamed or criticized.

Expecting others to behave as per our wish will not work because each one is different – each one’s background, learning, upbringing, views and opinions are totally different. Only opposites are attracted to be in one place, so that we learn the art of living in co-existence within a family.

How to change oneself by asking some relevant questions?

Where am I now? There is disharmony in the family.

What do I want? I want harmony in the family.

How do I maintain this problem? Or how do I contribute – my thoughts, my opinions, and my behavior, to this disharmony?

Or what is in me that maintains this disharmony?

How can I get harmony?

How will I change to get harmony?

Why can’t I solve it?

How could I make this harmony possible?

What is required to have harmony?

MT
You said that one should give love irrespective of whether he is receiving or being blamed or criticized. That is fine!

Sending love means what? Is it always thinking well about in-laws, parents, loved ones or is it seeing good in them or is it always to say “yes” to them, whatever they expect from me?

Are we allowed to express ourselves in harmless way, when I don’t like something or don’t want do certain things or wanted to do in another way? Or sending love means being kind with them?

Pls help me to understand sending love means what?

Naran

Ask these questions to yourself and you will get the answer.

I am forgiven

HELP

I had a misunderstanding with someone I love very much, and due to my arrogance this person didn’t come to meet me. We normally meet every day. How can I save my relationship with this person and strengthen it.

Naran

Help others without arrogance. Do the forgiving exercise

HELP

As per your instruction, I did the forgiving exercise 7 X 108 times. I also personally asked for the forgiveness and now I am forgiven.

From the ‘I Love Myself” Workbook

How to manifest divine love in all your relationships?

1. Forgive, thank and love all your relationships.
2. You may be in conflict with your relative today but may not have an aversion about them tomorrow.
3. Do not carry the conflict for tomorrow. The reason for today’s conflict should not be present for tomorrow’s conflict. Tomorrow when you have a conflict again, do not use all the words which you used today, and do not bring this scene then.
4. After every fight and quarrel, just thank all the quarrels. When you thank them you will find a world of difference, the very next day.
5. Also thank the person who fought with you.
6. After the conflict is over, use appreciative words for that person (mentally) and then forgive them.

Connect to the right partner

JES K

Pls help me to guide through this situation, after my last relationship ended with very bad manner. But, it’s been two years now. I was able to come out of sadness and ready to move on, and feel good about myself.

Finally, I started feeling the same for this I guy I knew. I really like him and would like to build a loving trustworthy relationship with him.

There is always something goes wrong which is not making me connect to right guy. I have so much fear in my heart that things not going to come the way I want with him.

Naran

Chant the Bach Flower Remedies, “MIMULUS, GENTIAN, HORNBEAM”

In addition, chant separately, “LALITHAM SADHASHIVAM”

Explanation

To come out of sadness: GENTIAN and HORNBEAM

For fear: MIMULUS (as the saying goes, ‘once bitten twice shy’)

Connect to a right partner: LALITHAM SADHASHIVAM

Love, Affection and Harmony

Kunzite

It is light pink in color. For menopause problems Kunzite is very useful. It will teach a person love and affection.

Family harmony

Kunzite is anther gem remedy which is very helpful in restoring the harmony in the family. The rose quartz removes the hurt feelings in the house. Because of the hurt one becomes terribly angry and in rage. For that situation of anger and rage Kunzite is very useful. It is also very effective for family disputes.

Pink Tourmaline

It teaches intimate love.

Green Sapphire

Green Sapphire also promotes fidelity. Especially it works well in the relationship because in a relationship only fidelity is important. It is also good in partnership driven business.

If one wants his workers to be loyal with him he should take Green Sapphire.

Nine Gems

For autistic children Nine Gems can be given as a background remedy. The heart is longing for love. Even though the love is there, they cannot feel it and they behave in an uncontrolled manner. For such persons give Blue Sapphire for restriction of the behaviour and after two hours give Nine Gems.

Fever does not come down means then you can give Nine Gems.

Ruby

Ruby must be used very carefully. In a family Ruby should not come because the key word is – break. Ruby should not be worn in the body permanently. Once in a while if you wear it is ok.

How to maintain your level of intimacy

When can you get what you want in a relationship?

All of us enter in to any relationship to expecting something in the lines of – “I want someone so that I feel good; I want to be loved and taken care of”.

In any relationship when you expect, you will be disappointed.

When one is ready to give without expectation, he can get.  There will not be any dejection.

How a destructive relationship starts getting building up?

When I do not want any destructive relationship or when I want harmony and peace in a relationship, then I should stop resisting it first.

Instead, when the spouse says or does anything you disagree or you don’t like, you start resisting inwardly.

Then like starts yielding to dislike.

However, this is not expressed but suppressed.  This continues until it becomes resentment.

How you destroy the foundation of love?

You become angry.

Anger separates you from the other person and a barrier is formed.

Intimacy is ended, and leads to rejection.

You find ways to blame or criticize the partner wanting to prove that he/she is wrong.

Verbally you attack.

Everything the other person does seem to be wrong and the physical separation begins.

Without knowing, that your own blaming causes rejection – you feel rejected.

Your relationship deteriorates further by either suspicion or withdrawal.

Resolving these destructive tendencies

If relationship is to be mended then take the following remedies:

• AGRIMONY for open communication
• BEECH to understand other’s point of view; to have tolerance
• WILLOW to stop blaming and to forgive
• WALNUT to adjust and to be compromising
• CHERRY PLUM not to burst out
• HOLLY for suspicion and back biting
• CHICORY to give and not to force one

Each day is a new day. Start as if it is a new relationship.

Relationship Mantras

http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/06/11/relationship-mantras/

Increase Your Attraction Factor

http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2012/01/20/increase-your-attraction/

Love Enters When Anger Exits

http://dare2doit.wordpress.com/2009/06/19/signature-confidence/

Say good-bye to lover of your past

http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2011/06/16/say-good-bye-to-lover-of-your-past/

Harmony with Husband

http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/05/18/good-communication-and-understanding/